Tired of getting dragged to steakhouses and settling for salads? Does everyone know you as the one that eats all the veggies or chips and salsa at barbecues, when there's nothing else to eat? While everyone else oohs and ahhs over a turkey dinner, do you poke at your overcooked yams and dream of a tastier, more satisfying feast that celebrates the holidays? We may have little choice but to live and socialize among meat-eating family members and friends, often at the expense of our own taste p …